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Suicide as a Cop Out

Posted by admin, on October 13, 2008 at 3:30 pm.
Categories: grief and loss, suicide

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I read this article today Suicde Body Unclaimed and wondered about the nature of this particular suicide.

It’s easy for all of us to box suicide into a depressive or mental illness and explain it away.

But what if, in this case, it was a carefully planned execution?  This man killed his wife and then himself over money, debt to be more specific.

Soecity seems to collectively hate him for his final action.

Not all suicides are through ’sickness’, some are through malice, which is not traced back to an illness. Some people are just mean and horrible and it is their final act of hatred for the world and everyone they knew in it.

So how do people who loved this person move on? Where do they find comfort?

They don’t.

It takes years to recondile the hatred and the love that they feel for this person simultaneously.  And no-one wants to know about the love part, they just want to hate them, so the ones who loved him end of feeling ashamed because they loved them in the first place, this person who could do such a thing.

Instead of feeling glad that the earth has ridden itself of such scum, maybe we could spare a thought for those who loved him and are too mortified to even claim and bury his body.


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Golden Gate Suicide Net

Posted by admin, on October 12, 2008 at 8:06 am.
Categories: suicide prevention

In their wisdom San Francisco council has decided to put a net on the Goilden Gate Bridge to stop people trying to kill themselves by jumping from the bridge.

It’s quite a problem apparently.

 

This goes to the same argument, do we stop building tall buildings because people will jump off them?

 

Surely there is a better way to spend that money, like counselling, mental health beds, more doctors to specialise in psychiatry?  A net is not going to stop people jumping.  They’ll just move to an easier more accessible place, or worse.

 

Think about the why not the how.

 

http://www.suicidesurvivalguide.com

 

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Suicide, Depression and Bipolar Disorder

Posted by admin, on October 4, 2008 at 7:49 am.
Categories: suicide, suicide causes

Suicide is an epidemic. But why really is this so?  Are people just unhappy with life or is the reason far deeper?

 

Depression is also more prevailent but does not coincide with the figures for suicide.  Depression left untreated ends in suicide, that much we know.  But how can we determine whether someone has depression or is just sad or ‘depressed’? 

 

There is not a one symptom answer to this but a combination of different elements that lead to a diagnosis of depression.  Sleep and eating disturbances, loss of enjoyment in activities that normally bring pleasure, lethargy and excessive sleeping are some but again not all of the symptoms.

 

Bipolar disorder is a more extreme mental illness and is characterised by severe mood swings from being normal to severely down and morose to being extremely high, happy and carefree, also including irresponsibile, careless and frivolous.

 

The best thing to do is to consult your doctor or a psychiatrist if you think you may have depression or bipolar disorder.  From those suffering these conditions, this is almost impossible as clear and rational thought is disotred by the disease.  So it is up to the people around someone who may have these symptoms to keep an eye out for them and try to get them help.

 

Both diseases left untreated end in death.  Much like a cancer, a mental illness can erode away our ability to think rationally and suicide appears as the normal option to adopt. 

 

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Adolescent Depression: Figures Never Lie

Posted by admin, on September 15, 2008 at 6:31 am.
Categories: depression and suicide

Figures never lie and they are perhaps the best means to highlight certain facts and when they are brought to the notice of the general people leave a lasting impression and also gains the attention of all who learn about what the figures are saying. There no doubts that figures are nothing more and nothing less than concrete concepts that have the power to sway even the most skeptical of minds, and it will even show the young generation the true picture with respect to adolescent depression.

 

Twenty Percent Teenage Sufferers

 

The first thing that will make you sit up and take notice about figures pertaining to adolescent depression is the news that nearly a fifth of the teenage population in the US has experienced a form of clinical depression, even before having gained full adulthood. Not only that, but there are about ten to fifteen percents of teenagers that have showed symptoms of adolescent depression and another five percent of the teenage population will have suffered from significant depression.

 

Another alarming aspect to adolescent depression is the fact that there is not much social acceptance when it concerns teenagers with such a condition, and what’s worse is the fact that as many as eight percent of teenagers will have experienced depression at least once a year. This is alarming because the national figures of the general population suffering from depression are only a mere five percent.

 

When a person suffers a bout of adolescent depression it will generally last for about eight months and teenagers are also at risk that the subsequent attack of adolescent depression will strike them within a mere two years and the chances of this happening are about twenty to forty percent, and there is also a seventy percent chance that they will experience another attack of adolescent depression before they have even reached full adulthood.

 

Another feature of adolescent depression is that quite a few teenagers will suffer from attacks of seasonal depression that is most likely to strike them during the wintertime and also in places where the altitude is on the high side. And, even the weather can play a significant part in the onset of seasonal depression, which means that teenagers also need to worry on this count.

 

Other figures related to adolescent depression also reveal that dysthymia or a mild form of depression that lasts for a long time will affect about two percent of teenagers and a like percentage of teenagers would also likely suffer from bipolar depression when they grow older.

In fact, it is thought that as many as fifteen percent of teenagers that have suffered from major depression would later on be at risk of developing bipolar depression.

 

Thus, it is safe to say that adolescent depression will affect teenagers even despite their social background, income level, gender as well as race or even their achievements and that adolescent depression is very common mental health problem affecting teenagers in the US.

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11 Symptoms Of Depression And How To Recognize Them

Posted by admin, on September 13, 2008 at 11:12 am.
Categories: suicide

Everyone feels “blue” at times. Life is full of highs and lows. But people with depression feel sad all of the time. Depression is a real medical illness. Left untreated, it can lead to other mental illnesses or even suicide. Real clinical depression is not something you can just shake off. You can’t talk yourself into feeling better. It can interfere with your daily activities and can hurt the ones close to you. The first step in getting better is to recognize the symptoms and admit that you might have depression. Some people may have only a few of the following symptoms while some may have many.

Persistent sad mood or feeling empty.
Feelings of hopelessness.
Feelings of guilt or worthlessness.
Loss of interest in favorite hobbies or things you once enjoyed
Loss of interest in sex.
Decreased energy.
Sleep disturbances, either sleeping too much or too little.
Inability to concentrate.
Overeating or not being able to eat.
Restlessness or irritability.
Thoughts of suicide.

Depression may also cause a wide variety of physical symptoms. People with depression often experience digestive disorders such as constipation, abdominal pain and diarrhea. Depressed people may also get frequent headaches and experience back pain. Anxiety attacks may also coincide with depression.

Women experience depression twice as often as men. Hormones can play a huge role in depression. Menstrual cycle changes, pregnancy, post-partum period, miscarriage and menopause all can be contributing factors to depression. Women have additional responsibilities at work and at home and are usually the care giver for the children and sometimes aging parents. These stressors can lead to depression.

Men that are depressed often try to mask it with alcohol or drugs. They rarely admit to being depressed. Often times they will work excessively long hours to hide it. The rate of suicide in depressed men is four times that of women. Men often become angry, irritable and discouraged. They are less likely to seek help and are often harder to diagnose.

There are three major types of depression:

Major Depression.
This is a disabling depression that has a combination of the symptoms listed above. It interferes with one’s ability to eat, sleep, work or enjoy pleasurable activities.

Dysthymia.
This is a less severe type of depression. It is not disabling, but generally keeps one from functioning well or feeling good. People with dysthymia will probably have a least one major depressive episode in their lives.

Bi-Polar Disorder.
It is sometimes referred to as manic-depressive disorder. It is characterized by severe high and severe lows. The cycles may happen rapidly or come on gradually. Left untreated it can worsen to a psychotic state.

If you experience any of the above symptoms and they last for longer than a couple of weeks you should seek medical treatment. There is no shame in admitting that you may have depression. It doesn’t mean you are crazy or weak. People of all ages, race and gender can suffer from depression. With the right interventions, you can enjoy your life once again.



Is 16 too young to volunteer for a suicide prevention hotline?

Posted by admin, on September 13, 2008 at 9:12 am.
Categories: suicide prevention

I'm 16 years old and interested in volunteering for a suicide prevention hotline. Is this kind of thing considered as "too intense" for someone my age?

If this is something you really want to do, it's certainly not to soon to start planning. Yes, the hot lines require volunteers to be adults, but you can begin learning now. Look for books or websites on this topic. Teach yourself strategies, learn about warning signs, etc. Be a good friend at school to others who may need one. Lots of people need help and don't know how to ask for it, so be alert and aware of that. Then when the time is right, you will make a wonderful and well prepared volunteer. You can also start volunteering in other ways now. There are lots of places to volunteer that do not require that you be 18 (or 21). If you are interested, check out Volunteer match or Network for Good to find opportunities in your area. I wish you all the best my friend.
http://www.volunteermatch.org/
http://www.networkforgood.org/volunteer/

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How should one deal with grief or loss ?

Posted by admin, on September 12, 2008 at 11:38 pm.
Categories: grief and loss

I am feeling a lot of grief at the moment. How should I deal with it.
Nice answers. But thank God its not the loss of a loved one. Its some other very important thing I have lost.

Give yourself some alone time (anywhere from a couple of hours to a half-day or whatever feels right for you) where you will not be bothered. Allow yourself to feel your grief and loss completely. Many times we aggravate our grief by trying to avoid it. Let it completely swallow you, but be gentle with yourself at the same time. Refrain from hurting yourself.

What's happening is your mind is fighting with what is and is convinced that the loss needs to be grieved over. When you allow yourself to grieve, you'll get tired of it and see that there are other things out there to do and enjoy with your precious time. Life goes on. But don't speed the process. Emotions are not under your conscious control. All you can control is how you allow yourself to express it. If you really devote part of the day to these feelings and not avoid them, then you are honoring those feelings and letting them have their expression. Write, cry, write music, paint, sprint outside, lay in bed, pace the floor, shout, throw things. If you write out your feelings, be petty, be the toddler child having a tantrum who's not allowed to have what he wants. Basically, whatever you do, do it to get out those feelings until you exhaust them.

You'll eventually come to see that whatever you no longer have you can live without and still enjoy your life. If you feel the need to hurt yourself, though, please be kind to yourself and go see your doctor.

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The Benefits Of Fish Oil

Posted by admin, on February 28, 2009 at 12:02 am.
Categories: suicide prevention

When it comes to nutrition and our diet, there are good fats and there are bad fats. Artificially produced trans-fatty acids are bad in any amount and saturated fats from animal products should be kept to a minimum. The best fats are those that contain the essential fatty acids so named because we need them to live. Essential fatty acids are polyunsaturated and grouped into two families, the omega-6 EFAs and the omega-3 EFAs.

Minor differences in the makeup up the two groups make both the EFA families act very differently in the body. While the metabolic products of omega-6 acids promote inflammation, blood clotting, and tumor growth, while the omega-3 acids have an entirely opposite affect. Although we do need both omega-3s and omega-6s it is becoming increasingly clear that, an excess of omega-6 fatty acids can have grim consequences. Many scientists believe that a major reason for the high incidences of heart disease, hypertension, diabetes, obesity, premature aging, and some forms of cancer are the profound imbalances between our intake of high amounts of omega-6 and lower amounts of omega-3 fatty acids.

Sources and Recommended Daily Requirements

The main sources of omega-6 fatty acids are vegetable oils such as corn oil and soy oil that contain a high proportion of linoleic acid. Omega-3 acids are found in flaxseed oil, walnut oil, and marine plankton and fatty fish. The main component of flaxseed and walnut oils is alpha-linolenic acid while the predominant fatty acids found in fatty fish and fish oils are eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexaenoic acid (DHA). The most beneficial and active of these fatty acids are EPA and DHA.

Recent research has established that consuming fish oils (EPA and DHA) play a crucial role in the prevention and even the treatment of numerous diseases and conditions such as atherosclerosis, heart attack, depression, cancer, rheumatoid arthritis, diabetes, ulcerative colitis, and Raynaud’s disease.

Recognizing the benefits of EPA and DHA and the serious consequences of a deficiency in our diets, the US National Institute of Health recently published Recommended Daily Intakes of fatty acids. They recommend a total daily intake of 650 mg of EPA and DHA, 2.22 g/day of alpha-linolenic acid and 4.44 g/day of linoleic acid. Your saturated fat intake should not exceed 8 percent of your total caloric intake or about 18 g/day.

Fish Oil Good For Our Brains

The human brain is one of the largest “consumers” of DHA. According to researchers, a normal adult human brain contains more than 20 grams of DHA. Low DHA levels have been linked to low brain serotonin levels, which are connected to an increased tendency of depression, suicide, and violence. A high intake of fish has been linked to a significant decrease in age-related memory loss and cognitive function impairment and a lower risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease. Additionally, several studies have established a clear association between low levels of omega-3 fatty acids and depression.

An adequate intake of DHA and EPA is particularly important during pregnancy and lactation. During this time, the mother must supply all the baby’s needs for DHA and EPA because it is unable to synthesize these essential fatty acids itself. There is some evidence that an insufficient intake of omega-3 fatty acids may increase the risk of premature birth and an abnormally low birth weight.

The constant drain on a mother’s DHA reserves can easily lead to a deficiency and some research has concluded that preeclampsia (pregnancy-related high blood pressure) and postpartum depression could be linked to a DHA deficiency.

Researchers have found that children who regularly eat fresh, oily fish are four times less likely to develop asthma than do children who rarely eat such fish. Other research has found fish oil to be helpful in the treatment of other lung diseases such as cystic fibrosis and emphysema.

Fish Oil and the Heart

A vast amount of medical literature demonstrates that fish oils prevent and may help to ameliorate or reverse atherosclerosis, angina, heart attack, congestive heart failure, arrhythmias, stroke, and peripheral vascular disease. Fish oils have also demonstrated an ability to help maintain the elasticity of artery walls, prevent blood clotting, reduce blood pressure and stabilize heart rhythm.

Various studies have concluded that fish oil supplementation may help prevent arrhythmias and sudden cardiac death in healthy men. Another study of heart attack survivors found that patients supplementing with fish oils markedly reduced their risk of another heart attack, a stroke or death. Other researchers found that fish oil supplementation for 2 years caused regression of atherosclerotic deposits.

Still other researchers have found that supplementing with as little as 2 grams/day of fish oil (410 mg of EPA plus 285 mg of DHA) can lower diastolic pressure by 4.4 mm Hg and systolic pressure by 6.5 mm Hg in people with elevated blood pressure. These reductions were enough to have patients avoid taking drugs in some cases of borderline hypertension, especially when combined with a program of salt restriction.

Reduces Pain and Helps Prevent Cancer

Fish oils have been shown to be particularly effective in reducing inflammation and can be of great benefit to people suffering from rheumatoid arthritis or ulcerative colitis. Additionally, it is known that patients with ulcerative colitis have abnormally low blood levels of EPA. Clinical trials have shown that supplementation with fish oil (2.7 grams of EPA and 1.8 grams of DHA daily) can reduce the severity of the deficiency by more than 50% and enable many patients to discontinue anti-inflammatory medication and steroids, as well as cardiosteroids such as prednisone.

There is now also considerable evidence that fish oil consumption can delay or reduce tumor development in breast cancer. Studies have also shown that a high blood level of omega-3 fatty acids combined with a low level of omega-6 acids reduces the risk of developing breast cancer.

Safe Fish Oil Supplements That Are Easily Available

The processing and packaging of fish oil is important in helping determine its quality. Low quality oils may be quite unstable and contain significant amounts of mercury, cadmium, pesticides, and other undesirable trace components. High quality oils are stabilized with adequate amounts of vitamin E and are packaged in individual foil pouches or other packaging resistant to light and oxygen. Recent research indicates emulsified fish oils are much better absorbed than the straight oils in gelatin capsules.

Beware!!!

Cod liver oils and fish oils are not the same. Cod liver oil is extracted from cod liver and is an excellent source of vitamins A and D. Fish oils are extracted from the flesh of fatty fish like salmon and herring and are good sources of EPA and DHA. Fish oils contain very little vitamins A and D, but cod liver oil does contain EPA and DHA. However, you would probably exceed the recommended daily intake of vitamins A and D if you were to try to obtain therapeutic amounts of EPA and DHA from cod liver oil.

Of important note, research has shown that fish oil supplementation does lower blood concentrations of vitamin E, so it is a good idea to take extra vitamin E when adding fish oils to your diet.

Scott White
http://www.articlesbase.com/health-articles/the-benefits-of-fish-oil-79386.html



Hair Loss is Depressing for Men, for Women it Can be a Disaster

Posted by admin, on February 28, 2009 at 12:02 am.
Categories: suicide causes

In a survey of women who had suffered from noticeable hair loss, half said they had seriously considered suicide and the other half said it had badly affected their marriages. It’s obviously a condition that deserves to be taken seriously by the medical profession, yet until recently there has been a marked disinterest.

‘A lot of people get the feeling that doctors aren’t interested if you go to see them about hair loss,’

‘It’s not life-threatening, it’s not even painful. But it can ruin people’s lives.’

Hair naturally changes in thickness and quality at different times of life. After childbirth, for example, many women find they’re temporarily ‘moulting’ as their hormones change. After the menopause, too, reduced hormone levels usually leave hair a little thinner. But if your hair starts falling out, don’t just accept it.

‘It’s a medical problem, not a cosmetic problem,’

‘It should always be investigated to determine whether there’s a background condition that needs treating.’

Hair loss can take one of several different forms. With alopecia areata, hair starts falling out in patches. This may continue till there’s none left on the body – though a third of sufferers just develop a one-off bald patch, after which the hair grows back and never causes any further problems. Alopecia areata (thought to be an auto-immune condition, in which the body attacks itself) can be triggered by thyroid conditions, anaemia, vaccinations or stress. A tendency to this kind of hair loss sometimes runs in families, along with asthma and eczema.

Male-pattern baldness, or alopecia androgenetica, can affect women too. The hair becomes thin or leaves a bald patch on top of the head. This can be a sign of hormone problems, either caused by a medical condition such as polycystic ovary syndrome or as a reaction to the progestogens in some contraceptive or HRT pills.

Some people lose their hair in the aftermath of a severe shock such as a serious accident or bereavement – a condition called telogen effluvium, in which trauma disrupts the hair’s natural growth cycle so that it all falls out at once. This can also be triggered by unhealthy eating.

‘The commonest cause in women is a nutritional deficiency.’ Avoid yo-yo dieting and crank diets. If you’re not eating animal products, make sure you have enough protein, zinc and iron from other sources, and take vitamin B supplements.

Things have moved on since a GP said not to worry since there were some very nice hats in the shops. Hair loss causes as significant an impact on quality of life as severe illness such as psoriasis.

Treatments for Hair Loss

A lotion called minoxidil has been shown to help alopecia areata when used with the steroid drug prednisolone. Though steroids can have serious side effects, including raised blood pressure and bone-thinning when taken for long periods.

Another course of action is to try to irritate the scalp into producing hair again – amazingly enough, this often works. We use a chemical called diphenylcyclopropenone (Diphencyprone) or leaves from the plant primula obconica.

Minoxidil has been shown to help alopecia androgenetica, with a success rate of two thirds reported for the 5% prescription formula and about one third for the 2% over the counter version. Drugs such as the contraceptive pill Dianette can be used to bring the hormones back into balance.

A new drug called finasteride (Propecia) is available on prescription for men, though it has not yet been tested enough to rule out possible harmful effects on women, and it is suspected of causing damage to babies in the womb.

Whatever your hair-loss problem the first step is to make an appointment with a trichologist.

www.thewestminsterpractice.com

Gary Heron
http://www.articlesbase.com/diseases-and-conditions-articles/hair-loss-is-depressing-for-men-for-women-it-can-be-a-disaster-118380.html



Depression – Suicide and the Sexes:

Posted by admin, on February 28, 2009 at 12:02 am.
Categories: suicide

Schools and daycare centers should almost be considered Ground Zero when it comes to lice. Head lice, those pesky little white bugs that seem to make their way to your child’s head every so often will probably return soon. The reason is that the lice problem continues to be a growing issue in many of our schools.

There are many claimed ways to get rid of a lice infestation. The problem is that almost as many cannot be relied on to be effective or work in your situation. This is because even a single head louse can re-infect a person within weeks. One of the most common reasons for a re-infestation is not following the directions no matter if a commercial or more natural product is used.

Many products, even the natural ones require re-treatment after 7-10 days. Many parents will deal with the initial outbreak and dutifully use a product or remedy then not do the follow up. The child is allowed back into school and everyone goes back to their daily routine. The follow up treatment to kill any other lice however is never done and a re-infestation occurs.

These parents are the ones that claim that the treatment program doesn’t work! It wasn’t a treatment program or product that didn’t work, but the lack of following the directions. Some even claim that resistance to pesticides is the reason why the lice were not killed.

Another very common mistake parents make is not using enough of the product. This is especially true of insecticide based commercial lice products. Making a lice treatment shampoo stretch in attempt to save a little money is shortsighted. These medicated shampoos are designed to poison lice and it needs to be applied in adequate amounts to be effective.

Natural head lice remedies also have specific directions that if tried, should be followed. Many of these natural treatments instruct the user to generously apply a common household oil based product like mayonnaise to the infected head. The mayonnaise is then left in the hair overnight.

You can check out the site below for additional information on another method of killing head lice using pesticide free essential oil products. These are safer and milder than the pesticide based shampoos.

The whole premise of using mayonnaise or other various oils is essentially used in an attempt to suffocate the lice bugs. These home remedies usually do not work if only because lice can survive submerged in water longer than nine hours. This means that if you have any chance of smothering the lice, that mayonnaise or oil needs to be left in the hair a long time.

The point is that no matter what had lice treatment you select, it’s important to follow the directions exactly. Getting rid of lice in your home is not difficult, but it does require consistent actions.

Abigail Franks
http://www.articlesbase.com/health-articles/depression-suicide-and-the-sexes-118674.html